Want to wear flare jeans and heels!! Girls only!!?

I am a guy and I wear flare jeans a lot now. I buy them from the girl section and they look really good on me. I get no bad looks at all when I go to school and stuff. Most of the time I wear this brown cowboy boots with my flares and I used to have this black boots that were somewhat cowboy too but did not look that cowboyish and the heels were bigger than the brown ones. But they got worn out. I don't want to wear like stilettos or anything but I would really like to wear girls boots but they have to be the right match. What girls boots would you recommend that will go well with flares? I dress feminine by the way and its just the way I will dress. Similar style to Russell Brand and Bill Kaulitz. They wear high heel boots too. Don't know if there for girls or guys but I can't find any high heel boots for guys with that big of a heel and I can't buy online. So what high heel boots do you girls recommend? Remember the boots just have to go to the ankle not the knee. I hate when it goes up to the knee.